Want to blow your own mind? Want a resource in your toolkit for anxiety? Appreciation is a practice. Your heart wants to be free to love and appreciate. That might sound woo, but it's not. This “want” is biologically wired into you as a member of the human species. It wants to feel free to love the self that you are, and to incorporate others into that love as well (oh so challenging sometimes, I know). So, thoughts and attitudes of judgment and hatred and blame - whether directed towards yourself or another - they feel oppressive to the heart. But thoughts and attitudes of appreciation, well, they’re the antidote to all the ways we’ve shut down and cut ourselves off from our ability to connect with others.
Mentioned in the podcast
Esther Perel Ted talk here
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Let’s get more present and regulated. For that, self-regulation techniques can be extremely helpful. I have a pdf guide with 9 Self-Regulation Tools for Anxiety & Overwhelm over here!
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